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//15 January 2008 6:15 PM

A few words before you start on the paragraphs of words (no pun intended):
This following is full of incoherent thoughts and quotes, so some things may be contradicting.

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Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer
but wish we didn't. - Erica Jong

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Love is a narcissism shared by two.

Lou Marinoff wrote (from Fraud's theory) that two people who love and invest too much will eventually have problems as well.

"This can happen when two people become 'as one', as the saying goes - and are thus reduced to being just half a person each. Each one loves the other at the expense of him- or herself. Each one is therefore hollow, reliant on being loved by the other, with a diminished capacity for self-love, as well as a hampered ability to give and receive gifts of love in a wholesome way. If one were to lose the other on whom so much oneself depends, it would be tantamount to losing oneself.

The 'arithmetic' of this kind of love is bizarre: One plus one equals one, if you stay together, but two minus one equals zero, if you split apart."

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There's danger in loving somebody too much
and it's sad when you know it's your heart you can't trust.
There's a reason why people don't stay where they are.
Sometimes love just ain't enough.

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Some things can only be seen clearly through tear-stained eyes.
If you don't go for perfection, you would be able to love further,
and live better.

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Sometimes you're close by,
Sometimes you're too far gone.

Sometimes you smile,
Sometimes you frown.

Sometimes you love,
Sometimes you can't be bothered.

Sometimes you are here for me,
Sometimes I have to console myself.

Sometimes it seems real that i am loved,
Sometimes it seems like a fantasy, a make-believe.

Sometimes I want you,
Sometimes I need you.

Sometimes, I fade away,
Sometimes I'll never come back.

Sometimes it just takes a little love to make everything sweet.
Sometimes all you needa do is make some magic with "I love you".

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We met each other only after such a big round,
I know how important you are to me more than anyone else.
After such a long silence, I've decided that after holding your hand I'll never let go again.

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Life is gonna be realistic and practical.
I dont wanna rely on you, but I have no choice.
The world is changing too quickly.
And I have to grow up. Fast.

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I hate how needy I get sometimes. I don't want to be like that.
I know I don't deserve love, I know I don't deserve you, I know I'm a terrible person, I know I take everything in my life for granted.

I wish I don't have anyone to answer to. I wish I'm only responsible for myself. But I guess life isn't like that. If Life was easy, it wouldn't be called Life.

There are always places we've yet to see, people we've yet to meet and kisses yet to be tasted. The best is yet to come.

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Life is so fucking short.
It's not worth it getting unhappy over small, stupid things in life.
Look at the big things in life.
Look at how beautiful they are,
and smile.

I'm going to think POSITIVE from now on. I'm going to join the Positive People Club; be positive. LIFE IS GREAT.

I hope you didn't see me roll my eyes.

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Everyone seems to be growing old. Seems to have aged. And it makes me rather scared and worried.

Baby, you're the most familiar thing to me..
I know the feelings can't be found elsewhere..
I love you.